Posttraumatic Stress Disorder and addiction

Posted on June 7, 2009
Filed Under Partners of pornography addicts, PTSD, Trauma and pornography addiction | 5 Comments

Here is an excellent educational video on posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD).  Virtually every partner who discovers her husband’s or boyfriend’s use of pornography experiences symptoms of PTSD.  Women experience feelings of anxiety, shock, anger, numbing, intrusive thoughts, panic, and other symptoms that disrupt their lives.  This video explains the seriousness of PTSD and the need to seek help for this condition.  The good news is that it’s treatable.  Partners need a chance to tell their stories in a safe and supportive environment.  12-step groups and group therapy are two excellent ways to help partners find support and direction to help them heal their symptoms.  One of the most powerful ways to help partners heal their trauma symptoms is for their husband or boyfriend to commit to full recovery and over time learn how to hear her pain and learn how to stay emotionally connected to her.  This is very soothing to her and lets her know that she’s going to be safe.  This can be difficult and often requires professional help, as the addict is both a source of pain and comfort for her.  If the partner has experienced previous traumas in her life, such as abuse or abandonment, she will have more difficult recovering from the impact of his sexual addiction without some professional intervention.  

Many men who struggle with sexual addiction are also trauma survivors.  Many of them are abuse survivors and many have been physically and/or emotionally abandoned in their families.  The addiction creates trauma as well since the addicts experience tremendous powerlessness and consequences.  Understanding trauma and it’s impact on our brains, bodies, and relationships to others is a critical part of individual and couples recovery.  

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5 Responses to “Posttraumatic Stress Disorder and addiction”

  1. S dash on January 5th, 2013 7:53 am

    Wife of uk porn addict. PTSD symptoms and pan in upper arms that won’t go away. Why is there do little help for the wives. Husband has got help hypnotherapy says is cured! I don’t feel cured. And he behaves like – right I have stopped now so stop going on its all done. Butvaftervfinding out he was browsing as he calls it all through our marriage I feel while life together was a lie.

  2. May on March 3rd, 2013 12:40 pm

    I couldn’t not access to the educational video for PSTD. Can you please advise the new link to the video?

  3. USMC Grunt on December 2nd, 2013 11:59 pm

    Are you serious? These women who see that their man is watching porn now have PTSD? You’ve got to be kidding. This website is a waste of life. Kill it with fire. I spent time in serious combat, and looking for help with PTSD sends me to this piece of shit site. Take it down before you hurt someone with your retardedness.

  4. C-PTSD Sufferer on December 27th, 2013 7:53 pm

    I’m in full agreement with USMC Grunt. I have a lifetime (literally my whole life!) of sexual, physical, verbal, and emotional abuse. I was molested over a period of years, raped multiple times, and have had two abusive husbands on top of an abusive father. Two men have tried to kill me with one almost succeeding. I think….no I KNOW!….you need to take a look at what causes PTSD because you are way off on your thinking.

  5. Emma on January 14th, 2014 1:14 pm

    I am sorry USMC & C-PTSD feel this way. My life has been completely ruined my husbands porn addiction. I have suffered all the symptoms of PSTD and am on prescription drugs for anxiety and depression because of it since October 2009. I didn’t know what I was suffering from and my life was hell for several years until I found out that I was suffering from PTSD. I thought that was something only soldiers got. Before I found out about PSTD I didn’t know if I was going mad or what was wrong with me. There was nothing out there to point me in the right direction. I too could go into my life history, fairly similar to above, but that isn’t what caused my PSTD symptoms. I know what did as I still have the flash backs that I am learning to live with. Nobody should under estimate the destructive nature of addiction in which ever form it comes.

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